The Art of Ecstatic Sex and Tantra

Subject: The Art of Ecstatic Sex and Tantra Thu Oct 15, 2009 7:30 pm

"Deep Penetration""Deep Penetration"
Generations
of women have failed to experience their divine orgasmic potential, the
female delight of sensuality and love through sex. The Garden of Love,
the secret gateway to sexual ecstasy for women and men, lies abandoned,
untouched, and overgrown with straying weeds. All the emotional
memories of a woman's painful sexual experiences such as rape,
abortion, aggression, and abuse leave their psychological imprint in
this deepest part of the vagina. This causes constriction in the
vaginal tissues making the walls tough and unyielding. In this way,
there is an ongoing protective defense set up in the tissues, and the
vagina contracts instinctively during intercourse, inhibiting deeper
penetration. This means that the powerful positive penis head is unable
to correspond smoothly and directly with its negative counterpart in
the very depths of the vagina, thus affecting the energy flow.

Women's sexual ecstasy

For a woman to experience these ecstatic energies in the depths of her
vagina, the tensions and disturbance created by past events must slowly
be released so that the woman's negative pole becomes simple and
innocent with a welcoming receptivity. She is then able to fully
receive and utilize the positive male energy to circulate within her.
The more sensitized the penis and vagina are to each other, and the
longer a couple make love in this trusting way, the more it leads to an
ecstatic experience of lovemaking. The energy exchange between the
sexual organs is thrilling enough to root you firmly in the here and
now, creating the dimension of Tantra very naturally.

Penetrate the depths and stay still
To strengthen the original nature of this polarity effect in our organs
of love, they need to be consciously healed and purified of toxic
tensions. This is done through deep, sustained penetration. For the
woman, the focal area for healing is located deep at the top of the
vagina. It includes the sides of the upper vaginal canal and up and
around the cervix, which protrudes into this part of the vagina. This
is her Garden of Love, the place where she will first know true ecstasy
in sex. When a woman is touched this deeply and consciously by the
penis, she may experience real love in her body through sex for the
first time. A friend experienced it as a pearl rolling all the way up
from the penis into her heart. Here where she is pure woman, her heart
opens beautifully and naturally, but it so rarely happens. Instead,
penetration is limited to short thrusts focused on the first few
centimeters of the vagina where several strong rings of muscle are
found encircling the entrance. Friction-like rapid movements back and
forth at the entrance have the effect of creating intense pleasure
which leads to excitement and thereby an interest in orgasm. Through
this, women's interest has been drawn away from the awareness of this
jewel in her upper vagina. Seldom has she had the opportunity to feel
it with true tenderness and thus the source of her true femininity lies
untapped.

Women (and men's) dependence on the clitoris for female orgasm has not
helped matters as far as vaginal consciousness is concerned. Countless
women do not know the satisfaction of a full vaginal orgasm, and so for
many of us the clitoris becomes the prime focus while making love. By
making aggressive thrusting pelvic movements aimed at stimulating the
clitoris, she is able to create the necessary excitement for orgasm.
Men too have become accustomed to giving women sexual satisfaction
through the clitoris. The outcome of a lot of sexual excitement has
been a relative desensitizing of the vagina. In the upper part she is
protective, and in the lower part she is tense, tough and expectan